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GAY, LESBIAN, TRANSGENDER, BISEXUAL
This is a series of wide ranging issues, and for a lot of people causes them very little problem. However for others their sexual orientation and other peoples reactions to it, can cause a lot of stress and unhappiness. In Cyprus some attitudes to Gay people in particular, can be difficult, and although this is changing, problems in day to day life still remain. The article feature below gives an insight into the issues young people face in particular, dealing with gender related issues. Cyprus Samaritans can help support people with any issues surrounding gender or sexual identity, by offering our confidential listening service. Talking about your problems and feelings really helps, especially in a non judgemental supportive environment. We have also provided some additional links that contain useful information that may be of help to you.
What is Gender Dysphoria?
Gender dyphoria, also known as Gender Identity Disorder, applies to someone who is unhappy with their biological sex and who wishes to belong to the other one.
For example, your daughter may say that she wants to be a boy, or your son may identify himself as a girl. Or perhaps you are worried about your child's cross gender behaviour, but they won't discuss it with you, and instead are isolated and withdrawn.
Or it may be you, as a young person, and you feel that your body is wrong, and that you should have been a girl if you were born a boy, or a boy if you were born a girl.
Gender identity is the sense of belief that "I am male" or "I am female". A child becomes aware of its gender identity before or around the age of five years, in many cases as early as 2 or 3 years of age. In most people their gender identity is the same as their sex, i.e. a woman or girl feels she is female and a man or boy feels he is male, but in a few people their gender identity and their sex do not match, and this can cause problems.
Gender identity issues vary considerably, some may be transient in nature, and some may not. They may arise when a child exhibits cross-
Some children may be unhappy about their own biological sex and either wish to belong to the other one, or feel that they actually do; some adolescents may experience a crisis over a problem of gender identity or sexual orientation, or both. These situations can lead to considerable concern and distress for all those involved.
At school, children or teenagers with a gender identity issue are often subjected to abuse. Bullying can take many forms; isolation and exclusion, insults and name-
Many adults with gender identity issues describe difficulties in childhood. Often they complain of having been very unhappy children and teenagers, and that their suffering had not been recognised early enough by parents and professionals.
The earlier this suffering can be recognised, then with the right support and treatment, young people can be helped to tolerate living in these distressing conditions until, having found a solution to the identity conflict, they can experience a happier and less traumatic adulthood.
Awareness of gender identity issues at an early age should be promoted, and that help is provided to families or individuals in order to alleviate any problems that might arise. It is often helpful to talk to others who have gone through, or are going through, similar problems. Contact with others, whether by telephone, letter, or in person, can help to deal with the feelings of loneliness and alienation that can arise.
Gay, Lesbian, Transgender, Intersex
www.mermaidsuk.org.uk (support for young people with gender issues)
www.nat.org.uk (HIV Specifc)
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